Knowing the girl in front of her was in extre fear, Ning Youguang sat a bit closer to her, gently patting her back to help her catch her breath.
Then, she spoke softly, "Your mother’s problem still needs so observation for now, but regarding the issue of your house’s bad feng shui, I can talk to you about it."
"Teacher?" Fang Tian gradually cald down under Ning Youguang’s soothing.
"Everything around us has a magnetic field. Every person’s external magnetic field, including your residential feng shui, your birthdate, ID number, phone number, all these add up to only 40% of your luck. As they say, the environnt changes with the mind. A person’s luck is not entirely due to these magnetic fields; it’s primarily related to one’s temperant. Moreover, even if these elents are interpreted, they do not represent the entirety of a person; they can only temporarily illustrate a short-term state. So, you should consider this issue as a variable. When you encounter unfavorable interpretations, don’t let it breed excessive fear, as variables constantly change."
"So the house isn’t the main reason why mom beca like this, right?"
"What do you think?"
"I understand now." Fang Tian exhaled deeply.
"If you still feel afraid about the house after I’ve explained this, you can have a trusted feng shui master from your family make so adjustnts at ho; it won’t cost much, just a few thousand bucks will do."
"The problem is, my dad doesn’t believe in this, it’s really hard." Fang Tian felt particularly distressed thinking about the endless argunts between her dad and grandpa over these matters.
"If your dad really doesn’t believe in this, then whatever house he lives in, whatever happens, is his fate. You need to learn to respect him; that’s just how he is."
Fang Tian was clearly not ready to accept her dad’s stubborn beliefs and all the chaos at ho.
Ning Youguang also knew that accepting sothing you cannot agree with takes ti for anyone.
So, she switched topics and continued, "Regarding your mother’s condition, as her daughter, you shouldn’t confront her for now. Based on my judgnt, your mother has a lot of fear. When soone is in extre fear, their trust in the world is very low. She won’t listen to what you say, so reasoning with her or teaching her what to do won’t work."
"Yes, teacher, when I first found out my mom was scamd for so much money, I patiently communicated with her, and that’s when she talked to . But now, she’s completely closed off at ho. She only believes those scamrs and is willing to be deceived by them, like she’s possessed. Now, if anyone says those dicines are bad, she’ll get angry. She insists that the dicine works for her and always tells others it’s effective. We’ve even sent those dicines to the drug administration for testing, and they said they’re useless, but she still believes in them. The problem is that those dicines are really expensive, costing hundreds of thousands per treatnt, and they haven’t improved her condition."
Fang Tian clutched her head in her hands, feeling extrely troubled.
"Honestly, I just can’t understand why she’s doing this. If she keeps borrowing money to buy more, we won’t even be able to keep our house."
"Have you checked out that store? See what their sche is."
"We can’t find that store. We found it before and called the police on the spot, but shortly after reporting, they moved."
"Isn’t your mom still in contact with them?"
"She still goes, but she doesn’t tell us where it is because she knows we won’t let her go there for treatnt."
"Because of this issue, my dad got really angry at ho and argued with her nurous tis. It even got to the point where the entire family knew about it. Many people in our family tried to persuade her not to be deceived anymore. She initially promised us she wouldn’t go there anymore, that the treatnt was finished, but later we found out she was still going there secretly. Now she can’t borrow money, so she takes out loans. It’s terrifying."
"It truly is terrifying," Ning Youguang said slowly.
She knew the student in front of her was facing a trendous family crisis. She had countless ways to analyze why the mother was behaving this way, but these were rely temporary solutions.
After so thought, she asked, "Has the family taken your mom to see a psychologist?"
"Yes, she’s seen several psychologists and taken dication, but it hasn’t worked. That’s what’s so despairing."
"How would you like the teacher to help you?"
Fang Tian seed stunned for a mont, then slowly stated her purpose for visiting today, "Could you take on my mom’s case?"
"Is your mother willing to co to for a consultation?"
Fang Tian was extrely distressed, "She’s not willing to see a psychologist."
Ning Youguang sighed softly, "Fang Tian, for clients over ten years old, I always seek their consent. If they strongly refuse psychological counseling, I won’t force them. This is a principle I must adhere to as a professional psychologist—psychotherapy is about helping people help themselves. If the client refuses assistance, no matter how capable I am, it’s in vain."
Fang Tian lowered her head in silence, exuding an aura of hopelessness and agitation.
"But the dication doesn’t work for mom’s condition. I believe only psychological healing can help her."
"Your assumption is correct."
"Then, teacher..."
"As your teacher, I certainly hope to help you, but once your mother steps into my consulting room, I am her psychologist. No matter what, I cannot violate the principles I should uphold as a psychological counselor."
Fang Tian’s emotions were on the verge of collapse, "Then what should I do, teacher? I’m so scared..."
Ning Youguang gently embraced the helpless student in front of her, speaking softly, "I know you’re very scared. If you can persuade your mother to actively seek my help, I’ll take on your mom’s case."
Fang Tian held her lighter teacher tightly, slling her faint, fresh scent, and cried bitterly.
Then, she looked up at her, almost stubbornly, "Teacher, I’ll take leave from the horoom teacher tomorrow and go ho. No matter what it takes, I’ll bring my mom to you."
"Alright, I’ll be waiting for you," Ning Youguang smiled gently at her.
Then she pushed the milk tea, which she’d set aside earlier, back in front of her. "Before that, the teacher needs to tell you that finding any bad things around us signifies a good start for change once discovered. Adversity and fortune are intertwined, so don’t be afraid. Life has to continue. What’s crucial for you right now is not to burden yourself with excessive ntal stress about what may happen to your mom. She’s a patient in urgent need of your help, and, at this mont, you need to take great care of yourself, be it physically, ntally, or financially. Only by steadily accumulating energy will you be able to better help and care for your family in tis of crisis."
"Teacher, then I’ll consider what is happening, as you said, a positive beginning," Fang Tian said, taking a big sip of the milk tea, a faint smile squeezing through her troubled expression. 1314
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