After listening to Xiaoqi’s words, Ning Youguang felt very sorry for the child.
These parents keep saying they love their child and that the child is their life, but they don’t know they’ve both done many things that hurt the child.
"Your vomiting is related to your parents’ argunts, not much to do with your desire to jump off a building, and the fact that your parents argue is not because of you," Ning Youguang said to Xiaoqi.
"The relational issues between adults are not sothing a child can understand. Maybe when you grow up, you’ll slowly get it. Generally, children unconditionally love their parents. As their child, especially when you hear them arguing over reasons involving you, you’re more likely to take on the bla and feel guilty. This is one of the causes of your vomiting. Also, your parents’ intimacy issues have led to a lack of self-acceptance, which is another cause of your vomiting. Of course, there are deeper reasons for your vomiting, which require your parents to participate in the treatnt with you."
"Oh." Xiaoqi lowered his head, "Teacher, are you saying my parents also need the treatnt?"
Ning Youguang nodded, "You can understand it that way. In a family where the child has psychological issues, it’s often the parents who need to see a psychologist the most, not the child."
"But my parents don’t seem to have any problems."
"Psychological problems are different from physical problems; they are deceptive. Physical problems can be detected with a hospital check-up, but many people with psychological disorders might appear completely normal on the surface," Ning Youguang explained. "The reason your parents need to undergo treatnt together may not necessarily be that they have psychological issues themselves. It could be due to issues in their interaction model or communication problems."
Xiaoqi said, "Oh."
"Now we can quickly solve one of your problems. Do you know what it is?" Ning Youguang asked with a gentle smile.
"What is it?" Xiaoqi’s eyes widened slightly.
"It’s how to stop being upset about your parents’ arguing."
"Teacher, do you know how?" Xiaoqi asked.
"Of course, I do," Ning Youguang said. "Think about it. What do your parents look like every ti they argue?"
Xiaoqi thought carefully and said, "Like two fluffed-up chickens, a rooster and a hen!"
Ning Youguang agreed, "Exactly, their arguing is very much like cockfighting. Your description is very vivid."
Seeing that she agreed with his statent, whether it was Xiaoqi imagining his parents arguing or the cockfight scene, he suddenly laughed.
Finally, the innocence of a child appeared on his face.
Laughing, Xiaoqi said, "Teacher, you’re right. How co I never realized my parents arguing was like chickens fighting? It’s too funny, haha, it’s hilarious!"
Ning Youguang also laughed and said, "Exactly, so next ti Xiaoqi sees his parents arguing, you can imagine them as two chickens having a fight, and you won’t be so scared, right?"
After laughing, Xiaoqi relaxed.
"Yes, if it’s two chickens arguing, I’m not afraid."
Since childhood, he’s lived in the fear of his parents’ argunts. For any child, parental argunts are extrely painful, let alone for Xiaoqi, who is adored by his family.
Ning Guang continued to tell him, "You’re grown up now. You don’t need to be afraid of their argunts anymore. And no matter how they argue, they love you, right?"
Xiaoqi thought for a mont and nodded.
Taking this opportunity, Ning Youguang hypnotized Xiaoqi.
During the hypnosis, she told him, "Whenever you see your parents arguing, just think of it as two chickens having a fight."
After the hypnosis, she woke Xiaoqi up.
Xiaoqi found it very magical, and by that ti, his parents had also co in.
He turned to look at his parents and suddenly burst into laughter, tears streaming from his eyes as he laughed.
"What’s happening with our son?" Xiaoqi’s parents asked Ning Youguang worriedly.
"It’s nothing, he just thought of sothing very funny," Ning Youguang said.
That day, as the counseling session ended.
Ning Youguang said to Xiaoqi, "Rember our secret weapon? Rember not to tell your parents, okay?"
Xiaoqi nodded seriously.
...
The next morning.
Ning Youguang received a call from Xiaoqi’s father as she was heading to class.
"Ms. Ning, thank you so much. Our Xiaoqi has stopped vomiting. Before, he would vomit at least three or four tis a day at ho." Xiaoqi’s father’s voice was jubilant over the phone.
Ning Youguang laughed, "Xiaoqi still has many fundantal issues unresolved. You should let him go back to school first, and bring him back to Beijing during the holidays."
"Alright, alright, Ms. Ning, please schedule us in when you’re available. We’ll make sure to bring Xiaoqi to Beijing for further sessions on ti."
After two treatnts, Xiaoqi’s parents had developed deep trust in Ning Youguang.
"Good," Ning Youguang smiled. "Safe travels."
"Thank you, thank you, we’ll let you get on with your day!"
...
At the "Starlight Investnt Fund" company.
With both hands on the conference table, Yun Ze Wu stood there, beaming at the team mbers below the stage, clearly in high spirits.
"After everyone’s efforts for so long, we’ve finally nailed down Manni! This is a new developnt in our business operations since returning to the country, and truly worth celebrating."
After saying that, he was the first to start clapping.
The audience, except for Shi Wangyue, joined in warm applause.
"Alright, eting adjourned." He announced generously, "This afternoon, everyone can clock out early and go ho to rest. Tomorrow, we’ll discuss the follow-up plans for cooperation."
"Thank you, Mr. Yun," all the project team mbers in the audience happily said.
...
The subordinates left the conference room ahead.
Yun Ze Wu followed behind, putting an arm around Shi Wangyue’s shoulder.
The two of them walked shoulder-to-shoulder like brothers to Shi Wangyue’s office, and upon entering, Yun Ze Wu flopped like a salted fish onto the sofa in his office, "Finally settled that woman, damn it! This past month has been exhausting."
He looked aningfully at Shi Wangyue, "Not only did we have no entertainnt activities every day, but we also had to work early and late every day. Forget about being the boss; this isn’t how even a corporate slave should live."
Then he leaned closer to Shi Wangyue, who had just sat down beside him, "I also want to go on vacation to Europe and have a proper rest."
Shi Wangyue quietly drank tea, ignoring him.
He continued, "No, I don’t care. I’ve already made plans with soone to go skiing in Switzerland. Everything is set, just waiting for things in the company to settle, and I’ll take my bag and leave."
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