After she left.
The remaining girl said with a satisfied look, "It’s so relaxing to have a al after the exams."
But it’s a bit awkward!
Teacher Ning, who’s so busy she forgets to eat lunch, eats even less than them!
No wonder beautiful people with good figures have their reasons!
The girl secretly swore in her heart, "I’ll start dieting after this al!"
"Eating makes people happy!" Ning Youguang agreed.
The girl who went to buy drinks returned after a while.
She was holding three cups of milk tea, gently placing one in front of Ning Youguang, sweetly saying, "Teacher Ning, have so milk tea."
Ning Youguang took a sip, "Thank you."
The two girls drank their milk tea while watching her eat.
Noticing how cleanly she ate everything except a few pieces of at, "Does the teacher not like at?"
The other one realized and asked, "Oh right, why doesn’t Teacher Ning eat at?"
Ning Youguang shook her head, "This pork belly is a bit greasy."
"Greasy?" said one girl, "I just ate so, it’s not greasy."
"If the teacher doesn’t eat it, I’ll have it." The girl next to her clearly didn’t like wasting food.
Ning Youguang said, "You don’t mind eating what I left behind?"
The girl laughed heartily, "Of course not!"
Isn’t it too wonderful?
She shared at with the goddess.
This kind of thing can be rembered for a lifeti!
Ning Youguang handed over the untouched pork belly to her.
The girl poured it into the remaining rice, mashed it up, and finished it in a few bites.
The three walked out of the first canteen together as more students were coming in for lunch.
Ning Youguang said, "Rest well after the exams."
"We will, teacher," said one girl.
The other girl said, "We’re going back to the dorm to soak our feet, then hide under the blankets and watch movies, I’ve stocked up quite a few that I haven’t watched yet."
"That’s very nice." Ning Youguang smiled, "Wish you happy movie watching."
The two girls giggled, "Happy New Year, Teacher Ning."
Ning Youguang laughed, "Also, a Happy New Year to you both in advance!"
...
Months later, seeing Xiao Qi again.
Ning Youguang noticed that the child had obviously grown taller and fatter, and his expression was much livelier than before.
Xiao Qi’s parents were very happy to see her too.
Xiao Qi’s mom’s complexion was also better than before, "Teacher Ning, thank you so much, ever since we returned from Beijing, everyone in our family can see that the child’s temperant is much more lively than before, he doesn’t vomit several tis a day like he used to. So this ti in Beijing, we plan to completely cure the child’s problem."
Ning Youguang asked her, "Do you still argue with your husband often?"
Xiao Qi’s mom glanced at her son sitting quietly outside, whispered, "Still arguing, but now we try to avoid doing it in front of the child."
After a slight pause, she continued, "Since you told us the reason for the child’s vomiting, I’ve also been careful about what I say in front of him, trying hard not to complain about his dad in front of him, and my husband and I also spent more ti with him."
Ning Youguang smiled, "Okay, I understand, you and Xiao Qi’s dad go out for a bit, I need to talk to Xiao Qi alone."
Xiao Qi’s mom quickly left the small treatnt room.
...
Now only Ning Youguang and Xiao Qi were left in the room.
She smiled at him, "Your mom tells that whenever she talks about school with you, you throw up. When you get ho from school and start reading or doing howork, you throw up. Do you dislike school?"
Xiao Qi awkwardly scratched his head, "I don’t know why, but whenever mom talks about school or reading or howork, I want to throw up. I really don’t want to be like this, Teacher Ning, you know? Getting all the stuff out of my stomach feels awful. I like reading, I quite like school, it’s better than staying at ho where I’m alone, whereas, at school, there are classmates to talk to and play with."
"I see." Ning Youguang nodded, "If it’s not fun at ho, I would also want to go to school. But then you’re vomiting because your mom talks about school and howork, do you think that’s normal?"
Xiao Qi shook his head and sighed, "It’s not normal, others aren’t like this."
Ning Youguang said, "Do you know why?"
"I don’t know." Xiao Qi furrowed his brows.
"It’s because your subconscious is bothering you." Ning Youguang said, "You should have heard of the idea that nothing in this world happens without a reason. Behind every event, there are causes we cannot see."
Xiao Qi nodded, "I’ve heard that."
"Right." Ning Youguang said, "Although vomiting is a physically painful reaction, from another angle, isn’t vomiting also helping you get so opportunities? Avoiding things you don’t want to face?"
Xiao Qi thought for a mont and said, "Every ti I vomit, my parents stop fighting and let rest at ho, they spend ti with ."
"After you went back last ti, did your parents fight?"
"I haven’t seen them argue at ho."
"Do you realize your subconscious has regarded ’vomiting’ as an effective tool?"
Xiao Qi asked, "Teacher, what is subconscious?"
"It refers to psychological activities we can’t see ourselves." Ning Youguang tried to explain in language Xiao Qi would understand.
"The teacher ans my subconscious is sothing even I don’t know about, right?" Xiao Qi asked.
"Correct." Ning Youguang said, "You don’t know about it, but it influences your behavior. For instance, if your subconscious has regarded ’vomiting’ as a useful tool, then whenever you face so issue in life you can’t handle or confront, it will erge on its own, your body feels it but you’re unaware."
Ning Youguang knew long before that Xiao Qi’s struggles weren’t rely due to disliking school; there were nurous deeper issues.
During the last treatnt session, she recognized many fundantal problems remained unresolved, aware Xiao Qi’s ’vomiting’ wouldn’t improve instantly either, the reason being—
In the temporary treatnt of Xiao Qi, her approach was solely based on the child’s perspective.
This was far from sufficient.
To genuinely heal Xiao Qi, his parents need to be actively involved in the treatnt.
Because if the child’s psychological issues originate from the family, parental involvent is necessary in the treatnt for fundantal solutions.
Otherwise, as long as family issues persist, like a virus, they continue to infect the child, making the child ill. 1314
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