She’s really anxious for these two people.
"Shouldn’t there be doubt?" Zhuang Yijing felt sowhat embarrassed by Ning Youguang’s words.
"Love given is love returned, blessings given lead to blessings received." Ning Youguang spoke sharply, "If the emotions you give others include doubt, the feedback you’ll receive won’t be pure. That’s the law of energy; think carefully about it."
"Then how should I treat him?" Zhuang Yijing scratched his head, "I’ve thought and thought, and the only thing I can give him is money."
"It depends on what you want to get from him." Ning Youguang said.
"Him." Zhuang Yijing was very certain about this.
"Then you also need to see what Xue Ting wants most from you; taking both the person and the heart is the best strategy." Ning Youguang said, "When you have his heart, you’re not afraid of not having him."
"How can I win his heart?" Zhuang Yijing asked again.
"That depends on whether you have heart for him or not." Ning Youguang replied leisurely.
"Of course I have heart; if I didn’t, I wouldn’t have been planning this for so long." Zhuang Yijing is soone who does everything with purpose.
The several tis he’s arranged etings with Xue Ting were just to lay groundwork for now.
"Are you sure your heart is in the right direction?" Ning Youguang asked, "Many people in relationships misdirect their efforts. They think they’re loving others with dedication, but if you ask those they love, most will tell you they didn’t feel loved, because what they were given wasn’t what they wanted."
After quickly reflecting on his actions, Zhuang Yijing asked, "What is the right way to win soone’s heart?"
"It’s about investing in the one you love, sharing in their concerns, desires, pains, and loves, standing with them against the world." Ning Youguang answered.
"Huh?" Zhuang Yijing widened his eyes, "What about ? What should I do? Shouldn’t I consider the sunk costs? What if it blows up in my face after investing so foolishly?"
"In love, the bigger your ’I,’ the smaller the other person will be. If you don’t value others more, do you think they will value you and give their heart to you?" Ning Youguang spoke coolly, "Just focus on loving him wholeheartedly; the rest, leave to fate."
"Alright." Zhuang Yijing decided to try following Ning Youguang’s advice.
Then, she asked again, "What if my heart can’t settle down?"
"What do you an specifically?" Ning Youguang asked.
"I an, I often think of him, and when I do, I can’t help but let my thoughts run wild and want to do sothing." Zhuang Yijing said.
"The most precious treasures require ti and thought to acquire." Ning Youguang raised an eyebrow, "Right now, you should calm yourself and don’t act recklessly."
"The problem is that I just can’t calm down." Zhuang Yijing feels her state has been very off lately, "What can I do to calm myself?"
"Let yourself quiet down through action." Ning Youguang replied, "Keep yourself busy with work, reading, attending classes, going to the gym; keep your body active, and your mind will naturally beco calm."
"Aren’t I busy enough? My mind still can’t be calm; every day I can’t help but think of him. I think your thod might not be suitable for ." Zhuang Yijing said, disagreeing.
"Oh, then just keep thinking about it." Ning Youguang said calmly. 1314
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