"In psychology, ntal entropy is considered an exquisite taphor. To put it simply, ’entropy’ refers to the level of disorder in a system. The more chaotic, the higher the entropy value; conversely, the more orderly and clear the structure, the lower the entropy value." Ning Youguang explained briefly to his brother, "The thoughts in a person’s mind are like the molecules in a system, always racing like a wild herd. The more chaotic your mind, the higher your entropy value. For example, being indecisive about others’ evaluations, ticulously calculating gains and losses – these all contribute to high ntal entropy. Another definition of ’entropy’ is the total amount of unusable energy in a system. In short, the higher your ntal entropy value, the less energy you have to do things successfully because you waste a lot of energy on internal consumption. On the contrary, when you focus on sothing you find aningful, all your thoughts support each other, interconnect, work together, and move in the sa direction. This is a process of reducing entropy, also known as ’negative entropy.’ High negative entropy makes you feel peaceful, fulfilling, and joyful, and you feel empowered in everything you do."
"Are you saying, Sis, that I actually don’t enjoy clubbing, getting drunk, racing, or getting tattoos?" Xie Yizun tried hard to digest the information Ning Youguang conveyed to him. "Comparatively, I enjoy dancing, singing, and playing the piano more."
"Do you need to ask that?" Ning Youguang asked with a smile.
"It seems like that’s the case." Xie Yizun said thoughtfully, "At the company, I feel very fulfilled, and I progress daily. I keep surpassing myself. I do a lot every day, but I don’t feel very tired. I sleep well at night and wake up every morning full of anticipation. Here..."
Xie Yizun looked a bit embarrassed.
"Don’t feel embarrassed." Ning Youguang said with a smile, "The more honest you are with yourself and with , the more I like it."
"Here, you and brother-in-law treat well, and I live comfortably, but I feel empty, and the happiness is short-lived. I don’t sleep well at night, but I don’t know if it’s because I sleep too much during the day or because of my mood." Xie Yizun scratched his head.
"This is what’s called the ’happiness logic’ problem." Ning Youguang said, "At the company, you work hard to realize your dreams, and everything you do brings you fulfillnt and growth. The happiness you gain is naturally enduring. Here with , all these actions hold no real aning for your true pursuits within, and they are a self-consumption and weariness for you. Feeling genuinely happy about them would be strange."
"Thank you, sister, for telling all this." Xie Yizun smiled, "I understand now."
As he smiled, the youthful innocence was still visible on his face, pure and adorable.
"Yiyi, I think your smile is very pretty."
Ning Youguang found herself fond of children’s smiles, like Yiyi, Ning Youyu, her students, and the children she saw wandering the streets.
Children’s smiles are different from adults’ smiles.
She felt their smiles were purer, more beautiful, and more touching.
The joy is unadulterated and very genuine.
"Sister’s smile is also beautiful." Xie Yizun lowered his head, a bit embarrassed.
"Of course, we’re siblings, after all." Ning Youguang graciously accepted the complint.
The close communication between the siblings progressed smoothly.
Thanks to Xie Yizun’s honesty.
And also because all this ti, Ning Youguang and Shi Wangyue’s indulgence and tolerance allowed his negative emotions to be released and relaxed.
This is how people are.
When you allow others to be themselves, they will allow you to be yourself.
Good communication should be mutual.
If you’re easy to talk to, so will the other party be. If you’re difficult to talk to, the other party won’t be much easier either.
Especially when dealing with adolescents like Xie Yizun, who hasn’t yet outgrown the rebellious phase.
Ning Youguang always understood the need to give patience, ti, and respect.
If he doesn’t ask, she doesn’t ask.
If he asks, she answers.
All along these days, she has been telling Xie Yizun with her actions—
"I’m here, by your side."
"Whenever you truly need , I will never refuse you."
It was precisely her tolerance and acceptance over these days that unknowingly tad and softened the rebellious little beast inside Xie Yizun.
Once a person opens their heart, whether it’s persuasion or education, everything becos much more effective.
Xie Yizun was also very willing to listen to her.
Because he knew, his sister would certainly help him, standing from his perspective to understand and help him.
"Sis, I still want to sing, play the piano, and dance." Xie Yizun lay on the table, speaking in a soft voice, his body seemingly boneless.
"And then?"
"I want to go back to the company." Xie Yizun felt a bit embarrassed.
After all, half a month ago, he was still clamoring not to go to the company.
"Then go." Ning Youguang knew early on that Xie Yizun’s words about not going to the company were just angry remarks.
If he really hated the company and disliked life there,
How could this once audacious little tyrant persist so long in such an ascetic lifestyle?
Since he could persevere, it definitely wasn’t just because of an agreent or so unseen future. A large part of it was the strength he gained from daily actions.
He genuinely liked and enjoyed doing these things.
"I’m very happy you could persist in practicing for so long without giving up or slacking off. After facing so setbacks, you were able to sort out your emotions and are still willing to return to the company. That in itself is amazing, and I am proud of you." Ning Youguang praised Xie Yizun, "Yiyi, whether or not you make your debut or beco a big star, just being able to achieve what you have in these three years is already incredible."
Xie Yizun covered his face with his hands, saying nothing, feeling a bit embarrassed yet very pleased.
After a long while, when he put down his hands,
Ning Youguang noticed the corners of the young man’s eyes were red, and his smile was even brighter.
"I think I’m pretty cool myself."
"I think so too!" Ning Youguang said happily, seizing the mont when Xie Yizun was in a good state to bring up the main reason she ca to talk to him today, "Alright, let’s talk about what you plan to do next. I’ve heard from Mom about the general reason for your argunt with the company. Now, I’d like to hear it from you, okay?"
"Okay." Xie Yizun nodded, "The inhuman living arrangents at the company and the high-intensity training required by the teachers are not the problem. What bothers the most is that three years ago when I joined the company, they promised I could debut, and now they haven’t fulfilled it. Just thinking about it makes not want to do anything, even though I don’t dislike doing those things myself."
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