Soone said: Co on, if you saw your boyfriend sitting and having coffee with another woman, could you accept it?
Soone said: If it’s a colleague or a friend I already know, what’s there not to accept? Even if I feel uncomfortable, I wouldn’t make trouble over it. What I can’t accept are intimate gestures between them, and I can’t accept them going out for coffee behind my back.
Soone said: See, you admit you’d feel uncomfortable.
Soone said: There’s plenty in this world that can make you uncomfortable. Having a boyfriend can bring tons of uncomfortable things; just because I feel uncomfortable, does that an I can demand they stop doing it? If I’m uncomfortable with how close he is with his sister, can I make him sever their sibling relationship?
Soone said: Aren’t you being unreasonable?
Soone said: How am I unreasonable? This is my stance. If it bothers you, find soone who also cares about this to date. The boyfriends themselves haven’t spoken up, and here you all are, sticking your noses in it.
Song Chi appeared below this comnt and gave it a like.
Song Chi would be lying if he said it didn’t bother him. However, he also knew that Zhou Yun was doing her best to be thorough. Whenever she had a eting, she would tell him in advance whom she was going to et. If she had to et with other n, or had matters to discuss face to face, Zhou Yun would bring along Zheng Xiaojue, Cao Jun, or Liu Yun to ensure a third person was present. In situations like a chance eting in a bookstore, could Zhou Yun have told Gu Huaichun, "Sorry, it’s just the two of us right now, please don’t talk to "? Any normal adult, especially one with a job, can’t avoid situations where they have to communicate with the opposite gender. So have more interactions, others less, the key is to maintain boundaries.
Therefore, even though Zhou Yun in fact had relatively close male friends such as Gu Huaichun and Wei Heyun, Song Chi didn’t really mind that much.
Zhou Yun’s actions were very open and natural; she would either bring him along to et these friends or invite other friends to join them, and she never hid anything from him.
Song Chi also knew that in this circle, temptations abound, and Zhou Yun had a team. If she truly wanted to hide sothing, she had the power to keep a secret; she had plenty of excuses to stand her ground, but she never did.
Under her influence, Song Chi did the sa.
If he were to et with other actresses, he’d arrange for his assistant to be present, avoiding any chance to be alone.
If the topics weren’t suitable for others to hear, they’d arrange to et in public places, like coffee shops.
The two had been together for a long ti and had never fought or beco angry over any jealousy issues, which was closely related to their conscientious behavior.
The couple spent more ti apart than together, but they would call at least once each day and wish each other good night before sleep. If they were filming or working outside, staying in hotels, they would video call from ti to ti.
Not to prove anything, but to give each other a sense of security.
This was their tacit understanding; they never made any explicit agreents but both acted accordingly.
Song Chi thought that this was good.
No matter what, this was a matter between the two of them. As long as there were no problems between them, it didn’t matter if the world outside was in turmoil.
They had to remain unaffected by the external environnt, which was an essential lesson for them in this industry.
During yet another script reading for "Four Killers," Zhou Yun attended as promised.
Sure enough, the issue that had caused an argunt between He Xuran and Yin Linglin last ti had been resolved.
The director and screenwriter devised a plot where the characters of both actors had reasons that were justifiable from their own perspectives but were based on misunderstandings, thus neither character had moral flaws or personality defects.
Zhou Yun wasn’t entirely satisfied with these changes; everybody has flaws, even characters in dramas.
A character without flaws seems unreal and prevents people from genuinely liking them.
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