Do you still rember how heartless you were when we pleaded with you back then? I can’t forget how much I suffered and how difficult it was for .
Zhang Yichen felt a sense of relief as he listened to his son speak. Perhaps his son didn’t do it on purpose; he just happened to push open the door when Yichen was at his angriest. Maybe he shouldn’t have taken it out on his son, but he had to make his son understand that no matter what happens, he must never lose his sense of proportion. Only do what’s supposed to be done, and don’t do what shouldn’t be done, or what’s the point? After he turned and left, he knew this matter wouldn’t be resolved so easily. His grandfather would surely co out to plead with him, and then what would he say? Clearly, he wasn’t at fault, but he’d still have to reassure his grandfather, telling him not to overthink or be upset, because his grandfather’s health couldn’t handle such stress. His grandfather should take good care of his health, because if sothing happened to his grandfather, what would he do as a grandson? He was the child his grandfather raised, and even if there were no other feelings, his grandfather was still the most important person in his heart.
After he turned to go downstairs, as expected, his grandfather learned of the situation and ca to plead with him. When he saw Old Master Zhang approaching, he felt he was in big trouble this ti.
"Grandfather, why are you still up so late? Is it because we were too loud talking upstairs and disturbed your rest? I hope you can rest well and take good care of your health. You know how much I care about your health, because I hope you can stay by my side for a lifeti. I don’t want you to suddenly collapse!"
"Yichen, I heard everything you said upstairs. I know what you discussed, and I also know that your son entered your bedroom without knocking and you locked him in his bedroom. I know you grounded him, and while I know I shouldn’t interfere, I really don’t want your relationship to end this way. Children make mistakes, and punishnt is necessary, but it should have limits. If you explain the principles to him, he will understand. Your son is as smart as you are; how could he not grasp this? So why go to the extent of locking him at ho? Isn’t that confining his freedom? You know better than what kind of person your son is. He can’t stand being cooped up at ho, and if you lock him in, aren’t you afraid he’ll get sick from suffocation? I just wish for him to be healthy and lively, even if he causes trouble every day, because at least he’s happy every day. He doesn’t understand worldly complexities or many social etiquettes; he only knows he is still a child. Despite this, he understands more than many other kids. He’s so much like you were back then, trying to prove to your parents that you were the strongest by working hard and overcoming every hardship. Your son is also trying to prove to his grandparents that he is the best, moving forward with difficulty. Isn’t he just a replica of you from back then? Will you really let him go through the sa pain you did? I understand that coming to say this may feel abrupt, but I hope you understand that sotis you need to know when to stop. Being overly persistent isn’t good for anyone because overly stubborn people don’t always realize what they truly want. I know that you are determined and persistent, and you don’t give up easily, which is a good trait. But one day, you’ll find out that not every persistence can be fulfilled, as persistence is often just a personal wish!"
"Grandfather, I know you’ve said all this for my good, but there are so things I must honestly tell you. Since I have already made a decision, I will not give up easily or change easily. The rules I set, I won’t break for anyone, not even you. I hope you can cooperate with in educating my child, and not oppose . Otherwise, my son won’t know who to listen to. He might think both his father and grandfather are correct; then who should he follow? In the end, he will drift further away. I appreciate you telling this, but I know you also ca to plead for my son, wanting to release him, right? No need to say more; this won’t happen so easily for years. Without basic respect, not even knocking on doors, then what will he be able to do in the future? A man should have at least the basic gentlemanly conduct, and while being a gentleman, he should also rember what to do and what not to do!"
"He’s still so young, how could he possibly know what to do or not do? Shouldn’t all these be taught by adults before he understands? So, I hope you don’t dwell on this issue anymore. Otherwise, it will make your son feel you’re targeting him deliberately, creating resentnt from him!" Old Master Zhang kept pleading, not wanting the relationship between his grandson and his grandson’s wife to affect their child.
"Grandfather, you underestimate my way of educating my son. No matter how I educate him, he is my son. He will always choose to follow unconditionally, without resisting or having any complaints against . If he understands the consequences he might face, it would be best. Actually, you don’t understand my son as I do. Even if he’s dissatisfied with deep inside, I am still his father. He wouldn’t do anything wrong against ; he would only plead with . Grandfather, many tis it’s not about oppressing him intentionally, I just want him to understand that there are many people in this world who will try to oppress him, and to avoid that, he must beco strong himself..."
Only by being strong can you allow those you love most to live more easily, without so much burden. Everyone’s life can be better!
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