I also know that so things, for him as a man, he has his dignity. But as a woman, don’t I have self-respect? Or does my heart not ache? When he repeatedly doubts , where has he considered my feelings? I’m not asking for much; for , a happy life together as a family is enough. Yet, for him, it seems I’m asking for too much. He never considers what I want, always imposing his ideas on . Do you think this is fair to ? If I can’t get fair treatnt, why should I continue to serve like a beast in this family and live with him?
I know that because I’m a commoner, many people think I married him just for his money. But I ask myself honestly, I have never coveted his wealth. No matter where I go, I have no qualms about this. I don’t care about how much money he can give ; what matters is whether I can spend my life with a man I love. Yet I finally realize that, despite how much I loved him initially, we cannot make it to the end!
Grandfather, do you understand the feeling of neither wanting to live nor die? Do you comprehend the feeling of being repeatedly insulted by your own family? You may not have endured it, but I truly cannot endure such blows anymore. No matter how much I love him, I can’t endure a husband who repeatedly insults my character with words, and then I must wholeheartedly spend a lifeti living with him.
Old Master Zhang doesn’t even know what his grandson said that made his granddaughter-in-law so furious. Perhaps this matter is not as simple as it seems, but why do they have to make such a fuss between them? This matter could obviously be alleviated, yet what is the point of always arguing?
"As a mother, a child must, at the very least, be willing to sacrifice everything for her son!
Isn’t everyone in the world willing to abandon everything for their children? If you can abandon all your self-respect for your son, then how could your husband not care for you? His doubts about you are just because he cares too much about you, and he lacks security. He also fears losing you. Trust between a couple is mutual; if you respect him, he will respect your son. Once one party betrays the other, there will definitely be conflicts between them. You should understand these truths!
Think carefully about it. If you still feel that leaving is the best choice for you, then I definitely won’t stop you. But I also hope you rember you have a five-year-old child waiting for you at ho. Are you really willing to leave?"
"Grandfather, regarding everything you just said to , I can clearly answer you without hesitation. How could I bear to leave my own children? I am their biological mother; I gave birth to them painstakingly. How could I not love them?
But so matters cannot be explained in a few words, nor can they be resolved with a few vows over ti. Many tis, I don’t quite understand why I’m so persistent. I have sacrificed so much for this marriage, yet in the end, I receive nothing.
Perhaps you have never experienced having your life decided by others, while you can only be a lamb led to slaughter, powerless and without any ans to resist. Who can truly understand such despair? Step by step, I have reached this day. I didn’t value your family’s money. I could marry a man with no money or power, but I just wish for that man to be sincere, to trust as his partner, and to consider his wife for a lifeti!
People are selfish. I understand her reasons and her initial motivations for doing this. But he shouldn’t deprive of everything and shouldn’t take away my rights regarding my children. I don’t understand what it’s all for, or how to treat my grandfather. I’ve made up my mind; no matter where I go, I will keep my son with . I can’t leave my son here while I move abroad alone!"
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