Many things aren’t really that complicated, and in the end, it’s just a change caused by one’s attitude at the ti.
Every life is built step by step by oneself, and how you treat your life will determine the heights you reach in life.
In fact, Old Master Zhang understands deeply that he no longer has the right to interfere in the affairs between his grandson and granddaughter-in-law. He also knows everyone needs to grow, and only through continuous growth can life beco aningful. Initially, one’s growth brings many painful mories, but ultimately these beco the most beautiful mories in one’s heart. No matter what kind of industry one eventually chooses, or what experiences they undergo, every choice made will be a source of joy for one’s past efforts, leaving no regrets.
"Grandpa, thank you for your encouragent today. I’ll never forget the words you said to . If one day I truly achieve success, I will co back here to find you, because you gave the best comfort. You made understand that life isn’t lonely and that there will be much joy and happiness. Only by constantly moving forward to explore what the future holds can I live happily for the rest of my life. No one knows what kind of ending awaits them, nor can anyone make early predictions for their future life."
Yes, I believe just as you said, Grandpa, one day I will study abroad, and one day I’ll show those who have comforted and encouraged that their view of wasn’t wrong. Through my efforts, I’ve proven to them that I am the best person in the world. I can climb to the peak of my life step by step through my own efforts, creating my own empire with my hands, not relying on anyone. Every decision I make will ultimately lead to my most perfect life!
I’ve already given so much of my sincerity, yet I don’t understand which path I should choose to live my life happily, never again receiving any blow or hurt. I also realize that things aren’t just what you wish for in your heart. Each person has a different way to achieve a happy life, so I have no right to dictate others’ happiness. What I can do is make my own life happier and more joyful, ensuring my life isn’t as aningless as it once was!"
"Child, Grandpa knows you must have a reason for saying and deciding the way you do, and you believe that all your decisions will be a key point for your future.
Perhaps, as you said, I should stop interfering in my family’s relationships and lives. Everyone’s path is indeed different, and I should let them follow the life they want, allowing them to build trust between each other. Only with trust in marriage can they walk a long path together. I can’t arrogantly make all the decisions for their lives, as this world can’t be controlled by alone.
Everyone faces different choices in life, and the consequences are unknown. No one knows what their life will eventually beco, only through one’s choices and explorations can one discover the differences that exist in this world!
Maybe when one day I truly understand, I will find all the key points, realizing that everything I’ve done has been wrong. I shouldn’t have forced my family to choose as I did, because there’s no perfect person or identical life in this world. It’s unfortunate that I’ve only now realized I haven’t been in touch with my son’s contact information for all these years; how could there be no connection over such a long ti?
In fact, this is the deepest pain in my heart. I always thought that as long as I wanted it, my son would fulfill all my desires, never considering how painful or grown he might have been. Why should I read his life and lead him? Every person walks a different road; forcing my thinking upon him might be my selfishness that caused my son to beco unwilling to live with as his father, turning cold because of my actions."
"Grandpa, I’m happy to hear these words from you, but everyone’s path must be their own. No one can make all decisions for others, and each life will face different roles. If one’s selfish behavior causes those they care about to get hurt repeatedly, is that really the life you desire?
Don’t use your perspective to dictate everyone’s life, as that isn’t fair to anyone. With your comfort, I am happy, but in facing family, so comfort is necessary. Without any comfort, how can family consider you sincerely? I truly hope there can be significant leaps in mutual understanding soday.
Actually, your grandson’s family is quite happy, regardless of their purpose or what they’ve experienced. Even if they start arguing, they never lose faith in each other. Sotis they’re just lost, unsure of what decisions to make or whom to trust.
So things need to be clarified, or misunderstandings will deepen and beco uncontrollable in the future.
I believe for any family, harmony is more important than anything. The harmony of a family represents its hope. If there’s no harmony, always filled with distrust, how can anyone in that family live happily, and who can truly dedicate their life to believing in soone else?"
Taking things seriously is always better than being careless and missing the point...
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