There are many things we are helpless about, we can only watch as ti bleaches our hair.
In fact, Old Master Zhang understands very well that he is no longer in any position to interfere in the family matters between his grandson and granddaughter-in-law. He also knows that everyone needs to grow, and only through continuous growth can one’s life beco aningful. Initially, one’s growth may bring many painful mories, but these will eventually beco the most beautiful mories in a person’s heart. No matter what career one eventually chooses or experiences, every choice will make one happy for their past efforts, leaving no regrets.
"Grandpa, thank you for encouraging today. I will never forget what you said to today. If one day I truly achieve great success, I will definitely co back here to find you, because you gave the best comfort, you let know that my life is not lonely, my life will have many joys and happiness, and only by constantly moving forward to explore my future path will I live a happy life. No one knows what kind of ending they will face, nor can anyone make early predictions for their future life."
Yes, I believe, just like you said, Grandpa, one day I will definitely study abroad, and one day I will let those who have comforted , who have encouraged , know that their opinions of were not wrong, because I have proven with my hard work that I am the best person in this world. I can reach the pinnacle of life step by step through hard work. I can establish my own empire with my own hands. I don’t need to rely on anyone because every decision I make ultimately relates to my perfect life!
I myself have given too much genuine heart; I don’t understand what path I should choose to walk happily through this life, never again subjected to the slightest blow or injury. I also understand that so things can’t simply be realized because of one’s wishes. Everyone has different ways to lead a happy life, so I have no right to dictate others’ happiness. What I can do is make my own life happy and joyful, so that my life is not as aningless as before!"
"Child, Grandpa knows, there must be a reason for what you say, you also believe every decision you make will be a key to your future life.
Perhaps I should, like you said, no longer involve myself in the family relations of my own family, nor their lives. Everyone’s path is indeed different; I should let go and allow them to walk the life they want, let them have trust in each other. Only with trust in marriage can they go far together. I cannot be self-righteous and do everything as I want; the world is not sothing I alone can control.
Everyone faces different choices in their lives, and the consequences it will ultimately bring, nobody knows what their life will eventually turn into. Only through one’s own choices, only by exploring step by step, only if one is never afraid of getting hurt and keeps moving forward, will they soday find that there are many things in this world that are different!
Perhaps when I truly figure out the key to all this one day, I will discover that every action I took was actually wrong. I should not have forcefully demanded that my family make the sa choices as I did because there are no perfect people in this world, no identical lives. Everyone’s life is unique. Unfortunately, I only realize now that my son’s contact information has been unchanged for so many years, how could it be that he hasn’t had any interaction with for so many years.
Actually, this matter is the deepest pain in my heart. I always thought as long as it was what I wanted, my son would certainly follow my wishes to achieve all my goals. But I never considered how painful his heart was, how much he has grown; why must I read his life and bring him along? Everyone walks a different path, forcibly implanting my thoughts into him. Perhaps it’s my selfishness that has made my child unwilling to live together with as a father, or perhaps it is my actions that have made my biological son lose heart with as a father."
"Grandfather, saying this to you today, my heart is happy, but everyone’s path must be traveled alone, no one else can make all the decisions for soone else. Everyone’s life will face different roles in the end. If because of selfish actions one continuously hurts the people they care about, would such a life be desirable to you?
Don’t use your own view to dominate everyone’s life, because that’s unfair to everyone. With your comfort, I am still very happy, but sotis family comfort is necessary. If you don’t give any comfort to your family, then how will they ever regard you as soone genuine? I truly hope that one day there can be a qualitative leap between you all.
Actually, your grandson’s family is still happy. No matter the purpose, no matter what they have experienced, even if they slowly begin to quarrel as husband and wife, they have never stopped trusting each other. Sotis they just feel lost, not knowing what decision to make, not knowing whom to trust.
So matters need to be clarified now. If not clarified now, the misunderstandings will only deepen and intensify over ti, which will be difficult to manage later.
I believe for any family, unity is more important than anything else. Family harmony represents the hope of this family. If there is no harmony within the family, if there is always distrust, how can the people in this family live happily? Who can truly stick to believing anyone for a lifeti?"
Old Master Zhang finds the doctor’s words very reasonable.
I will follow you, throughout this lifeti, to witness the flourishing beauty and your appearance. To accompany you closely, from our first eting, every word we discussed contains deep feelings.
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