Chapter 1004: Chapter 990: Guidance
“, what’s wrong with , huh, it’s all you n, always fickle. When you haven’t got soone, you make grand promises, but once you do, you start finding fault here and there. I’ve put in so much effort, but why does it always end in tragedy for ?”
At this mont, ng Jiayi was filled with confusion. He didn’t understand why things turned out this way, why he faced such a life. This wasn’t supposed to be his life. ng Jiayi felt terribly unlucky. From his perspective, every ti he sincerely gave his all, he only got callousness in return. He always felt that n were very passionate at first, caring and accommodating, but then things would change.
“Sigh…”
Su Xuan helplessly shook his head, feeling a bit sad. He took a sip of coffee and looked at ng Jiayi with resignation, speaking softly.
“ng Jiayi, you know, the thing I hated most about you back then was this. Honestly, a romantic relationship is about two people, you shouldn’t always feel that… sigh, I really need to talk to you properly today. I thought you might have changed a bit over the years, but now I see you haven’t changed at all!”
Su Xuan felt a sense of frustration, like “hating iron for not becoming steel.” After breaking up with ng Jiayi, he still hoped ng Jiayi would find his own happiness because, after all, they were once lovers.
“Let tell you, there is definitely a change between dating and being in a relationship. Haven’t you studied political science? Don’t you know that everything changes and evolves? Do you think love is as unchanging as the First Layer? You really think life is a fairy tale!”
Su Xuan was truly frustrated, speaking loudly. He had wanted to have this talk with ng Jiayi for a long ti. Back then, he thought about telling him nurous tis, but always decided against it because as soon as he brought it up, she would explode. Now that the love had turned into sothing more like familial affection, Su Xuan felt that he still needed to explain it to him properly today, otherwise this girl would eventually harm herself.
“Is that, is that really the sa? Love is sacred, isn’t it? How can it be explained with such worldly theories?”
ng Jiayi whispered, and after he finished speaking, Su Xuan rolled his eyes at him and said.
“Sacred, my foot. Girl, how old are you now? Twenty-seven, and you still think you’re seventeen? Let tell you, love is really just like a model of cooperation between two people. You, being inseparable is fine during the intense period of romance, but you can’t always be that way, right? Think back to when we were together. We were together for about a year and a half, and during that ti, you were clingy every single day. Girl, do you know what ‘space’ ans!”
Su Xuan said helplessly. To be honest, for him, ng Jiayi really was a nightmare. ng Jiayi was the type of girl who was very sweet and charming. When he first t her, Su Xuan thought she was amazing because of her sweet appearance and seemingly gentle nature. What impressed Su Xuan more was how eloquent ng Jiayi was — she really could make anything sound impressive.
When Su Xuan had just graduated, the first ti he saw ng Jiayi, he was drawn in by her goddess-like aura,
If life were but one first eting, sotis Su Xuan thought ng Jiayi embodied a goddess vibe, giving off a fresh and unordinary feeling. At the beginning, when Su Xuan pursued her, his enthusiasm was true, and more importantly, during the chase, ng Jiayi often talked to Su Xuan about how won should be strong and independent, making him feel she was different.
But after he successfully pursued her, Su Xuan found things were completely different. ng Jiayi was too lazy and too clingy. Honestly, most n don’t like overly clingy won, for a simple reason: lack of space. In a relationship, you often need a little private space. Of course, during romance, that’s a different story. In the heat of passion, even going to the bathroom, you’d want to be together.
That’s understandable, ’cause it’s the heat of the mont, but people can’t stay in such a phase forever. After all, people have to live. After graduating, Su Xuan didn’t want to depend on family connections; he chose to build his own career. But during that year, he couldn’t really focus on work since ng Jiayi would call all the ti.
At that ti, Su Xuan didn’t really have much money, and ng Jiayi would often call him throughout the day, bringing up the old argunts, like him not having ti for her or not having money. So many tis, Su Xuan would get so annoyed; he’d even developed a sort of ntal block. As soon as he saw her calling, a sense of fear would build up. Reaching that level, Su Xuan truly had it hard.
“Space, what space? You n, why are you so clingy when pursuing, but beco indifferent once you’ve got the girl?”
ng Jiayi looked hurt. Back then, Su Xuan was often at a loss due to this question. He really didn’t know how to respond to ng Jiayi because he felt like he was a bit.
“Co on, girl, you know that was during the chase. If you eat at every day, won’t you get sick of it? Honestly, no matter what kind of love, it goes through a phase of intense love, then transitions to calmness, and then into a life routine — that’s real life. To see if a man truly loves you, it’s when you reach the third stage. This is when a man who truly loves you will occasionally surprise you or give you peace of mind. What were you doing? Day in and day out, you were lost in romantic dreams. Who has that much energy? And do you know your most serious issue?”
Su Xuan spoke.
“What is it?”
At this mont, ng Jiayi felt that what Su Xuan said might have so truth. Actually, all along, ng Jiayi sotis wondered if he had done sothing wrong, but no one really talked to him about it. His previous two boyfriends also broke up with him for no apparent reason.
“How long since you entered the workforce?” Su Xuan asked with a smile.
“Uh, seems like about five years. Does this have anything to do with being in the workforce?” ng Jiayi was curious. Honestly, he didn’t know what was going on, feeling quite frustrated inside.
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