The doctor explained that both men and women could undergo a sterilization procedure. However, male sterilization was less risky, and the chances of plications would be greatly reduced. Moreover, the chances of failure were extremely low, and there was basically nothing to worry about.
However, a woman who undergoes ligation will have to face the risk of an ectopic pregnancy, for example. An ectopic pregnancy can affect her health, apart from causing inflammation and infection, the growth will need to be removed through an operation.
However, in this kind of environment in China, most men were very against such surgeries. This might have something to do with its deeply rooted male dominant society!
The general opinion was that this kind of surgery was the greatest disrespect to a man’s dignity!
The vast majority of men believed that assuming the responsibility of contraception would lower their own status. Furthermore, fertility was regarded by many men as vital to their status. Vasectomy was misperceived as an equivalent of castration. There were even many men who had the thinking that if they should divorce their wife one day, they would no longer be able to bear children of their own if they had undergone the procedure. Hence they did not want to go down this dead end.
In addition, many men treated women as their personal possessions, exclusive to themselves. This was part of the respect they received.
After all, a man’s priority was to continue the family line.
However, Mu Yazhe felt that he had to eliminate all potential risks where Yun Shishi was concerned.
He was adamant.
Why would he let his woman take such a risk?
Even if it was only a 0.01% chance, it was unacceptable.
Moreover, he had no worries because this woman, this great woman, had already fulfilled his greatest wish and given him a daughter. In that case, fertility was no longer something he needed!
He had set his mind on this woman to be the only woman to be by his side till the end!
He would have only one wife and all his children would only be hers and his!
After the vasectomy, he would never again have to worry about those tramps trying to sow discord between him and Yun Shishi!
This was a concern for him as well!
After all, regardless of his marital status, there were too many women who coveted him. There was no guarantee that there won’t be another woman like Song Enya, who would use despicable means.
Once he was sterilized, he would no longer have such concerns!
And at that point, if another woman should appear out of the blue and claimed to be pregnant with his child, then this silly wife of his would have the confidence to give her a tight slap!
The doctor had also explained to him the process of a vasectomy, which would involve a keyhole to access the vasectomy tube so that cuts could be made to the tubes. Although this surgery might sound somewhat frightening to some, a woman’s sterilization surgery was even more inhumane, in his opinion!
When a woman undergoes ligation, a cut has to be made on her abdomen and fallopian tubes have to be separated from each other by more than ten centimeters. Two incisions have to be made.
Upon hearing this, Mu Yazhe immediately rejected the idea.
However, in bed, he did not really like wearing condoms. He always felt that it was not very fortable. Furthermore, in a certain aspect, his senses were very sharp. Hence, this unfortable feeling was magnified infinitely. In the past, he did not wear condoms because he was hoping for another child – a daughter. But now that he had both sons and a daughter, he could not bear to see her go through another pregnancy. He thought that since he did not like wearing condoms, he should go for sterilization.
Mu Yazhe had briefly mentioned this to her about it but had not discussed it at length.
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