"If possible, I would rather he not discuss everything with ..." Yang Xiaoli looked earnestly at Chuxia, "Equality and respect are indeed important, but in matters of feelings, sotis a man’s domineering attitude represents his loyalty and dedication to you.
Division Commander has been domineering towards you from the very beginning, which indicates his absolute love at first sight for you, and that he is absolutely determined to have you. You are so much younger than him; if he wasn’t sowhat forceful, what if you beca soone else’s girlfriend, right?
i Yitong is different; I was the one who first showed interest in him, and he passively accepted this relationship. Therefore, whenever there are any disturbances, he feels like retreating.
Of course, he himself says that he does it for my sake, but has he considered what it is that I want? Is his so-called consideration for my sake really what I need?
I believe that true love is loving soone wholeheartedly and being with them without reservation, even if tomorrow was the end of the world, you would want to spend today together well, rather than withdrawing early to accommodate the other person."
"I agree with what you said, but Big Brother i..." Chuxia paused, then smiled sheepishly, "Never mind, I won’t try to persuade you, really, you know your situation with him best, and whether Big Brother i is right or wrong is plain to see, I won’t bother making excuses for him.
In any case, we’re friends, and no matter what you decide, I’ll support you. If you need Zhou Mikang to help you communicate, just let know, and I’ll absolutely make sure he does it well for you."
"That’s better..." Yang Xiaoli scratched her head in so consternation, "People are just so hard to understand. Initially, I thought I was quite happy with i Yitong.
But, seeing Division Commander Zhou’s considerate and loving care towards you, I gradually began to feel that between him and , it might not be love at all, just because I took the initiative, and he accepted because he was of the age to do so.
Being disregarded for a lifeti, I cannot not mind, so now I’m also a bit undecided, not knowing what the best step forward is."
Chuxia stared at her: "Do you want to hear my honest opinion?"
Yang Xiaoli nodded: "Of course."
"Don’t compare your own feelings with others’. Every person’s character is different, their experiences are different, so the way they get along is naturally different too.
No matter how good your relationship is, or how much Big Brother i loves you, if you constantly compare your relationship to others’, you won’t be happy because what you see is only the happiest side of others."
Thinking it over, Yang Xiaoli nodded: "That’s true, when you two argue or have conflicts, you definitely wouldn’t do it in front of , and you surely wouldn’t tell afterward either, so of course, I only see the happiness, right?"
Chuxia looked at her with exasperation: "Alright, although what you ntioned happens rarely with us, it’s still one possibility."
Yang Xiaoli widened her eyes: "Are you saying that you two have never argued?"
"He’s so much older than , do you think we can have a real argunt?" Chuxia said, looking frustrated, "However, can you imagine the feeling of shouting at soone while they don’t respond?"
"I understand..." Yang Xiaoli paused, then grinned mischievously, "I understand you’re just spoiled and pretentious."
Chuxia: "..."
"Alright, I’m just teasing you. I know how that feels. Sotis I have the sa situation with i Yitong. I’m furious and yelling at him, but he just treats it like comforting a child, with no reaction.
In those monts, I really wish he could argue with openly, at least then I could understand what he’s thinking, instead of just guessing wildly and fretting.
Just like this ti, he said he was doing it for my good and suddenly cut off contact. Initially, I decided not to bother with him, as long as he didn’t contact , I would definitely not respond to him.
However, I felt if I left it up to him, he might really never contact again. Fearing you all would laugh at , I had to secretly call him.
Then, I wrote him a long letter, honestly expressing my thoughts, hoping he would cherish the bond between us and not regret it in the future.
After receiving my letter, he did reply, giving another speech in his response, saying I’m too young and what if sothing happens that makes him unable to do right by .
I told him, on the road to the Netherworld, young or old makes no difference, if everyone thought like that, nobody would date or get married. How many couples in this world go to the Netherworld at the exact sa ti, sa year, sa month, isn’t that right?
Anyway, I’ve realized that in a relationship, the one who takes the initiative must always be the one to continue to do so, whether male or female, the other party, once used to passively accepting, will absolutely not change.
Um..." Yang Xiaoli scratched her head awkwardly, "How did I also get into the habit of rambling on, pulling out such a long string of words? Hehe, don’t take it to heart, anyway, you two definitely won’t end up like us."
"Alright, if you’re upset, just talk to . Friends are here to help each other relieve troubles, and relieving troubles doesn’t necessarily have to be tangible; sotis just venting and comfort when you’re feeling down count too, right?"
"Right." Yang Xiaoli nodded happily, "Sotis I feel so pent up, wanting to talk to those few girls, but the school is so full of gossip and there’s really no chance to talk. Luckily, there’s you, or else, I might just go insane one day, or, to say sothing more serious, it’s possible I’d end up like Ye iru one day." After saying this, she realized she spoke too quickly, and laughed awkwardly, unsure how to backtrack. (To be continued. If you like the work, please go to Qidian (qidian) to vote for recomndations and monthly tickets. Your support is my greatest motivation. Mobile users please visit m.qidian to read.)
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