Yes, many families would like to find a daughter-in-law from a similar background, and I admit, having similar backgrounds has its advantages, as it makes getting along easier.
But many couples with different backgrounds get along particularly well. Previously, I was too embarrassed to say it, but Jiang Jie knew his mother’s attitude, and he shouldn’t have let you spend ti alone with her.
Unless one day he feels he’s persuaded his mother to truly accept you and treat you as her own daughter, otherwise, how is it fair to leave you to face the difficulties alone?"
"Exactly, I think Jingbo is right!" Lin ngran quickly agreed, "Like and Zuo Jiang, until now I haven’t t his family, but let put it this way, if his mom dared to treat like that, I’d imdiately walk away.
It’s not like I can’t live without her son, why should I care about her attitude? To put it bluntly, for the past twenty years, I haven’t benefited from her at all, yet I’m expected to be filial to her along with her son. If anyone should show attitude, it should be , not her.
The thing I dislike the most is in-laws who make life difficult for their daughter-in-law, as if they are entitled. The daughter-in-law marries into your family, bears children, manages the household, and is expected to treat you like her own parents, with what right?"
"Yes, what the elder sister said sounds a bit extre, but when you think about it, it does make sense..." Yang Xiaoli sighed, looking at Li Xinli, "However, no matter what we say, it won’t help, it ultimately depends on what you want.
The fact that you’re with Jiang Jie ans mutual affection. The fact that he didn’t tell you about his family’s condition at first is significant, in my opinion.
If he didn’t tell you because he didn’t want to scare you off with his background, then he is worth your trust. If he didn’t tell you because he feared you were interested in his family background, then he is not worth marrying.
I’m not saying this to sow discord but to hope you’ll think it through, as this will determine what you do next. You need to be clear-headed. Given your character, after this, you won’t break up with Jiang Jie, so I hope you truly think it through, don’t let yourself be hurt.
"Don’t let them scare you, it might not be as serious as they say, but because we’re friends, there’s no hesitation in saying these things, just so you won’t have regrets in the future..." Chuxia patted Li Xinli’s shoulder, and then looked at Uncle Wang driving, "Uncle Wang, you’ve been through this, do you think what I’m saying makes sense?"
"Third Young Madam, it’s hard for to comnt on this..." Uncle Wang smiled awkwardly, "I’m just an older man, how would I understand what’s going on between you young girls.
Besides, Aunt Qin and I decided to be together for life just because we both thought the other was nice. We’ve had argunts throughout our lives together, but they were just passing storms.
At this age, what we hope most is for each other’s health, and really don’t think too much about the rest, which is totally different from young people’s thoughts, hehe..."
"Uncle Wang’s words are plain but make a lot of sense..." Chuxia looked again at Li Xinli’s conflicted face, "What matters most to you now is how you feel together, and once you beco an old couple, what you care about naturally changes. Of course, I don’t have the right to say much about it now, just listen to , but the decision is ultimately yours."
"Sigh..." Li Xinli sighed, with a bitter smile, "I actually felt quite certain, but after hearing everyone, why do I feel so unsure? Why does it feel like the more I think about it, the less clear it becos?"
"That ans your feelings for Jiang Jie aren’t deep enough, otherwise, you definitely wouldn’t feel this way," Lin ngran patted her, "Don’t get upset with us for creating more hassle for you, it’s better to be confused now than later."
"Actually..." Chuxia laughed, "When it cos to feelings, no outsider’s opinion can say whether it’s right or wrong. Xinli isn’t the type to be reckless for love.
This ans she isn’t the kind of girl to blindly love soone, so the worries we have are basically non-existent.
Even after this incident, if she really sees Jiang Jie as unsuitable, she’ll still break up with him, there’s really no need to be this tangled up now."
"Sis..." Lin ngran glared at Chuxia in dissatisfaction, "You’re saying different things now, which one should Xinli believe is true?"
Chuxia seriously said: "They’re all true. At first, I was worried about her, so I agreed with your views. Now, having been inspired by Uncle Wang, I think maybe our worries are a bit much.
Of course, as I said, if we didn’t care, we wouldn’t be worried, so Xinli, regardless, you should be happy to have us as friends with you. Please forgive my thick-skinned nature, hehe..."
Hearing this, Li Xinli’s face relaxed a lot: "What you said is true, I’m really happy to have you all around, how could that be thick-skinned?
Anyway, I’ve decided to let nature take its course. If we’re ant to be together, we will be, and if not, I’ve tried, so there’s nothing to be sad about."
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"Chuxia?" Seeing Chuxia suddenly visit, Fang Jingzi looked happy, "What kind of wind blew you here? Let see if the sun rose from the west?" (To be continued. If you like this work, please visit Qidian (qidian) to vote for recomndations and monthly tickets. Your support is my greatest motivation. Mobile users, please read at m.qidian.)
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