This child is too sensitive; she’s overly concerned about her emotions, and it’s difficult for children like her to play freely.
She thought about discussing this with him in the evening. Children’s thoughts now are quite different from back then, so she needs to ask and talk to them; otherwise, issues like these won’t improve, and it’s not good for their growth.
Qin Xue was contemplating the best way to approach this, considering the child is still young and has been tagging along with them for a while. She really doesn’t know his thoughts on matters like these. All they can do is guide him.
No matter how they put it, he’s just a child; if they talk too profoundly, he won’t understand, but not saying anything leaves the risk of him having unspoken thoughts, and as parents, they might not know. As parents, they’ve already spent little ti with him, and if they fail to guide him well, they would truly be failures.
For now, they’ll take them to pick up Cohen; later, let Chu Molin lead them, and in the evening, have a deep conversation.
Yes, a conversation. Qin Xue has never treated them as re children but as friends, where they can speak freely about anything. Only by doing so are the children willing to share their inner thoughts.
For the three children of their family, Qin Xue always hopes they will be like this, so she does whatever she can to ensure they have a better life.
As for other matters, she doesn’t really know how to discuss them; since they’re boys, it’s better to let their father, Chu Molin, teach them.
People are like this; no one wants to be inferior to others. Children’s self-esteem is strong, and they especially dislike feeling inferior. So Qin Xue starts focusing on their inner thoughts now.
It’s fortunate that she studied psychology; understanding their psychological activities early on is beneficial.
"Mom, who did you co with?" Yu Ze did not overlook the word ’we’ used by his mother.
"I ca with your father; he’s waiting outside." When Qin Xue and the others arrived, Chu Molin didn’t co in but waited outside, hence why Qin Xue ca in to take the children out.
Maybe he was concerned about the inconvenience of having others inside, so whenever he ca, unless Qin Xue invited him in, he usually stayed outside. Qin Xue understood this mindset and didn’t insist.
After all, he rarely joined them in the places where their daughter stayed frequently; Qin Xue was pleased with his clear stance.
Chu Molin’s actions made Qin Xue happy because soone who doesn’t know how to restrain their behavior can be too awkward.
As their woman, such behavior is even more hurtful.
"Is Dad back because Second Uncle returned?" Yu Ze guessed as much, perhaps that’s what’s happening.
"Yes, let’s go." Qin Xue held Yu Ze’s hand and with her other hand held Chu Xiaoqiao, leading the little son to them; the family of three was all exceptionally good-looking, making it a delight to behold.
"Xiaoqiao, we are taking the children to play; once you finish work, go enjoy yourself. We have the children, no need to worry." Previously when they had no ti, Xue Ling took care of them. Recently, Xue Ling has been focused on breakthrough efforts, constantly staying in her space. When Chu Xiaoqiao and Qin Jiale asked about it, she would make excuses about where she was, assuring them she would be back soon, hence the responsibility fell to Chu Xiaoqiao.
User Comments
0 comments from readers