In this society, there are actually quite a few good n. They don’t smoke, drink, or flirt; they go ho right after work. They are considerate of their wives, responsible for their families, willing to care and raise children, and hand over most of their salary, which should count as good n in the general sense.
However, what if his wife is adamant about not wanting children, or maybe she doesn’t want them until certain conditions are t? Not many n can accept this.
There was a street survey asking whether people would choose children or a house after a divorce. Most won would choose children, but most n would choose the house. Yet the strange thing is, if a man knew his wife couldn’t have children when they got married, most would choose divorce. However, if a wife knew her husband couldn’t conceive, she would, in many cases, choose adoption.
For n, having children is a must; not having them is not an option. But whether they raise them after birth, and how much effort they put into raising them, is hard to say.
If a husband, who is not firmly planning to be Double Inco, No Kids, can still understand his wife’s wish not to have children, then you’ve really struck gold.
However, Bo Yan’s attitude can be considered both important and unimportant. It’s important because they’re a couple, and it would be best if they could communicate well and understand each other. It’s unimportant because even if Bo Yan was determined to have this child, Xia Siyu wouldn’t relent and keep it. If they argued endlessly and couldn’t reach a consensus, she would rather choose divorce.
When it cos to career and family issues, she would undoubtedly choose her career. Family is just the icing on the cake, and children are even more incidental. Children are an extension of her life but not the ladder to the realization of her personal ideals and ambitions. She has to walk her own path and won’t be tripped up by any difficulties, not even her children.
Of course, she also respects other people’s choices. If Bo Yan prefers children, there’s nothing wrong with that; it just ans their views don’t align. She won’t bla him, but don’t expect her to change her mind for love.
But Bo Yan can understand her, respect her choice, and she truly feels very, very happy.
Finding soone who genuinely loves you is already very hard. And if that person can understand and support you, she feels truly fortunate. Of course, without Bo Yan, she would find her own fun and live well. But with him, the colors in her life seem more vibrant.
"Actually, I also have a thought to cherish talent." Bo Yan was held by her, his voice faint.
Li Yiru could see Xia Siyu’s acting skills improving by leaps and bounds; Bo Yan, being by her side, couldn’t possibly not notice.
"If you were still like you were two years ago, I’d definitely hold onto you tight, even if it ant a public fallout, I’d want you to keep the child." Two years ago, Xia Siyu hadn’t competed against Shang Feifei, and she didn’t have a sense of reverence or dedication to acting; the entertainnt industry seed like her playground, and she was there to have fun.
But now it’s different. Her acting skills have been advancing like a wild boar charging forward. Even with such poor reviews before, and missing out on the Golden Phoenix and Gold Oscar awards, there are still people who speak up for her. Now that she’s learned restraint, not only has she not concealed her brilliance, but she’s beco much more well-rounded. Bo Yan watches her act every day, and acts with her, and sotis he even feels like he can’t control her anymore.
Soone like her, keeping her at ho to be a good wife and loving mother, cooking als, is truly a waste. She is naturally ant for the stage.
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