Isn’t that so? she mused. Won often claim they have children for n, but aren’t they also having them for themselves?
"But if things were truly equal, why wouldn’t the child take the woman’s surna? True, it doesn’t really matter whose surna the child takes, but why are n so unwilling to give up this supposedly ’unimportant’ naming right?"
Exactly. Modern people are under imnse pressure, and n are even less willing to make sacrifices. They constantly talk about financial independence and equal responsibilities between husband and wife. You want to add your na to his property deed? Dream on—don’t even think you can trade your womb for a house.
"And won? They have periods and give birth, facing risks like miscarriages, D&Cs, and C-sections. They risk unemploynt due to nursing or pregnancy, and their figures changing. Most importantly, a woman’s childbearing years span only two or three decades, while a man’s can last for five or six. An inherent inequality exists from birth. Do you think true equality can be achieved later in life?"
He’s right. If things were truly equal, how many won would be high-ranking officials compared to n?
"The main issue is that for millennia, won have gradually been conditioned to accept this unfair system, so it’s beco second nature. Furthermore, with the instigation by so pseudo-feminists, they foolishly pick up only the obligations while completely discarding the benefits they deserve. Aren’t they just being foolish?"
She looked at him, a bit dazed. "But won can hold up half the sky."
"HAHA! That saying itself is utterly absurd. You’re not even as physically strong as n, so how can you hold up half the sky? That’s why won end up living rough lives, doing all the heavy, tiring work, while n, in turn, beco irresponsible lazybones. I actually hope more won pursue ’gender equality’ and go Dutch on everything so that n won’t be taken advantage of. HEHE."
She nodded quickly. That’s right, isn’t Xu Xiaoya’s younger brother a perfect example? His whole family has to cater to him. Extrapolating from that, it’s as if the entire nation is coddling these lazy n. That’s why n are becoming increasingly selfish, lazy, and devoid of any sense of responsibility or commitnt.
"Until n can reproduce independently, true equality between n and won is impossible. So, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with won demanding financial security. HAHA, of course, this isn’t sothing I’d tell just anyone."
She giggled, throwing her arms around his neck. "So, Big Grubby, does spending money on an you’re being responsible?"
"Duh. I’ve told you before, isn’t this just paying for my own hormones?"
Jerk!
"Hey, Big Grubby, can’t you phrase things a bit more pleasantly? Can’t you just say it’s because you’re madly in love with ?"
"Get outta here. Only poor n resort to sweet talk. They have nothing else to give you. Besides deceiving you with sweet words, what else have they got?"
"Bah! Sweet talk has its rits too."
He was dismissive. "I keep telling you won are foolish, and you still don’t believe .
"A rich man, whether he loves you or not, at most wants your body. But a poor man? He wants your life. His sweet talk will con you into slaving away for him your whole life, bearing his children—and that’s if things go well.
"If they go badly, he’ll still cheat, gamble, refuse to do chores, and provide no money for the family. He might even make you pay for your own abortion—that’s how miserable it can get. And if you divorce or break up, he’ll account for every single penny, and you won’t get any share of the house. Do you still like that kind of man’s sweet talk?"
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