PS: It seems like we were never officially dating, and he wasn’t really my boyfriend. We just ended up together in such an unclear way. He was so wonderful to days ago that I thought I was his treasure held within his palm. Turns out, it was all an illusion.]
A high school classmate swiftly responded to her journal entry, appearing to be their class’s physics representative:
[Honestly, ignore him!! Being a man myself, it’s definitely not your fault. If a man really likes soone, he absolutely wouldn’t tell her never to call him again over such a trivial thing. What kind of man treats his girl like that? Even if you made the worst mistake, he probably just doesn’t care about you. Ignore him, and if he reaches out to you after three days, it ans he still cares. If he doesn’t make up with you, then there’s a problem!! Take care, Chenxing!!]
What nonsense, Gu Shaocheng is not as indifferent as he says.
If Gu Shaocheng didn’t care, he wouldn’t get jealous or be upset that I went to Yearning Gate.
Chenxing felt a bit upset, finding it unfair that her classmate was making Gu Shaocheng sound so bad. She thought, Gu Shaocheng wasn’t as bad as he made out. He was kind to her, he cared about her, just like he said, he wouldn’t bother about her if he didn’t care.
After refreshing, another response appeared:
[This kind of jerk, just dump him, Chenxing, don’t be sad, hugs...]
What nonsense, Gu Shaocheng is not a jerk. He’s just used to being superior, has a temper – why are they telling to leave him?
So won are like this, they can criticize Gu Shaocheng, bla him for his violent behavior, but they feel uncomfortable if others do the sa. She always ends up defending him in her mind.
The third response:
[If you don’t really want to break up, but feel too embarrassed to bring it up, you could ask one of your mutual friends to talk so sense into him. Let your friend tell him how sad you are, coax him to apologize to you, (that way he won’t feel like he’s losing face, as he already knows you regret it first) if he still cares about you, he’ll co looking for you. This way, both of you can save face, it’s inevitable for couples to have small friction, he may just have been impulsive and lost his rationality.]
That’s a good solution, but wouldn’t that seem I’m selling myself short?
He’s ignoring now, would persuasion still work? He will definitely laugh at , and even despise in his heart.
Chenxing couldn’t swallow her pride, rembering this comnt but dismissing it publicly!
The fourth response:
[I’m in the sa situation, having a fight with my boyfriend. I always apologize first whenever we fight, it’s so painful. This ti, I really don’t want to admit my mistake first, I just want him to comfort . But he just says I’m being a princess. I really don’t know where I stand in his heart.]
Chenxing imdiately replied: [Exactly, that’s it! I just wanted him to soothe . Why did he have to say things so harshly? Yang Yang, we’re really two miserable sisters, hugs...]
At this point, soone else inserted a comnt under the fourth response: [It took nurous fights for to reach this conclusion. Here’s so advice, fights are not as scary in a relationship as the lack of communication and understanding.]
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