Ying Xiaoya herself is thin-skinned, but she couldn’t resist her best friend who is the thick-skinned one, and once the topic was opened, she simply admitted what needed to be admitted.
Cheng Su said: "There’s nothing wrong with the love you share, but you still need to be mindful of precautions. It’s not that you can’t have kids now, but the wedding is a few months away, and at that ti, you don’t want to be wearing a wedding dress with a big belly, right? Never mind how it looks, it’s uncomfortable. Trust , in early pregnancy, people feel most exhausted. So, even if you want kids, wait until after you’re married."
Ying Xiaoya replied: "I know this; my mom even ntioned it, saying if I have a big belly during the wedding, people will gossip!"
"Don’t mind the gossip; tis are slowly opening up now. Think more about your body. When I was pregnant with Xiao Qi, I could barely leave the phlegm cup for a day because I kept throwing up, it was so tough!" Cheng Su gently pinched her son’s round face and said: "You wouldn’t want to be puking throughout your wedding, would you?"
Ying Xiaoya shuddered: "No way, I wouldn’t do that!"
Cheng Su chuckled.
"Susu, does giving birth hurt? I’ve heard people say it’s like being cut with a knife!" Ying Xiaoya asked cautiously.
"Oh, it’s worse than death itself, probably even more painful than being cut with a knife. You’d wish you could stuff the baby back in and never go through it again. After giving birth, you feel like you’ve been broken and reassembled, oh that feeling, I never want to experience it again!" Cheng Su said.
Ying Xiaoya’s face turned pale and her voice quivered: "Does it really hurt that much?"
Cheng Su nodded seriously and replied: "But don’t worry, Guangcheng is a big city with great healthcare. By then, you might just get a painless injection and be done with it. Honestly, it’s too early to talk about this now. Those who haven’t had kids shouldn’t listen too much to experienced people; it might scare you!"
Ying Xiaoya swallowed and said: "So scary."
Cheng Su nodded, seeing her son closing his eyes to sleep, and placed him to the side of the bed, saying: "But, despite the pain, when you see your child, it feels worth it."
Ying Xiaoya, noticing the tenderness on her friend’s face and the overflow of maternal love, laughed and asked: "Really? Just now you were complaining quite enthusiastically!"
Cheng Su gave her a playful glare and said: "Really. Your husband is soone you spend a lifeti with, but your child is truly connected by blood, an extension of your life. That feeling is really amazing." She gently patted her son’s little body and continued: "You might laugh at , but now that I have him, I feel that everything I have can’t compare to him. My child is my world, my life!"
Having a son of her own, she sowhat understood those mothers-in-law who clash with their daughters-in-law. The son you’ve raised suddenly becos intimate with another woman, there’s bound to be so discomfort and jealousy in the heart.
Now, thinking about her son having a wife one day, she already felt a slight pang of sourness in her heart!
"Susu, you seem to have changed after becoming a mother." Ying Xiaoya sighed.
Cheng Su replied: "Have I beco softer?"
Ying Xiaoya nodded and said: "You’ve also beco stronger!"
Cheng Su smiled: "Motherhood brings strength. You’ll understand when you beco a mom soday!"
"Geez, you’ve only been a mom for a few days, and you’re acting all experienced, you’re so arrogant!" Ying Xiaoya teased her.
Cheng Su wasn’t annoyed. She just shared her reasoning with her friend, and they laughed and joked until Cheng Su truly felt tired, then Ying Xiaoya said goodbye.
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