Although Zhang Yichen had long known that the relationship between his parents was not particularly harmonious, he never imagined that all the problems originated with his mother. He couldn’t believe that his mother, who seed so loyal to love, would do such a heartless and wicked thing to his father behind the scenes. All he wanted was sothing so simple; he just wanted his life to be peaceful. When he saw his mother looking at him with eyes full of expectation ti and ti again, his heart shattered. After all, she was his mother, and he had never done anything that would leave her. She will always be his mom, and he had no way to ignore her, not care, or clean up these matters for her.
"Don’t speak about my mother in that tone. My mother was so loyal to you; I don’t believe she would do such a thing to you. There must have been so misunderstanding between you in the past. If there is a misunderstanding, I hope you can clear it up completely, rather than hurting each other this way, let alone harming your family. No one in the family owes you anything. When you do such things in this way, have you considered the family’s feelings? Do you know how much we are suffering? You only care about your imdiate interests, only about your deepest thoughts, yet you far neglect the fact that your relatives also need the care of family.
Have you considered how sad and upset your family will be when they hear you say these words? You are their relative, and they will never believe you would do such a thing nor say such words. Every word may seem like a careless remark to you, but in the eyes of others, it is a truly real statent. They have no way to pretend that all this has never happened.
No matter what my mother has done wrong before, but judging by her current attitude, she sincerely wants to spend her life with you. Why are you unwilling to attempt to accept all of her goods and bads? You should be accommodating; the greatest aspect between husband and wife should be tolerance. If you don’t even have the courage to tolerate and forgive, then being together brings nothing but harm, unable to provide even the most basic happiness."
"Grandpa, although I’m a junior, I have no reason to evaluate the matters between you and Grandma, but I agree with what my father said. The most important thing between husband and wife is tolerance. If you lack the courage to be tolerant, then do you feel that the things you’ve experienced living together all these years have been worth experiencing?
Perhaps, you have never considered problems from each other’s perspective in each thing you did before, but now I hope you can put yourselves in each other’s shoes. Even a little bit can be the most beautiful feeling in the world for both parties, right? If you continue making mistakes again and again, just because you do not know how to face each other, living together will only cause both sides to feel painful and uncomfortable.
I believe that all the experiences between you and Grandma over the years are real, they are the things you experienced as a couple, and only you two can feel them. They belong solely to the mories between you, which we as family mbers cannot participate in or interfere with. All that you have gone through should be worthy of the ti you clung together through thick and thin. It’s not easy for two people to rely on each other in the most difficult tis. It’s even harder for two people to consider each other more important than their own lives during the most painful tis. Why hurt the one who is most loyal to you again and again?
Reflect on all your experiences over the years. I believe you should find that there are still many beautiful mories between you, mories we have never experienced, and we don’t know what kind of feeling those mories carry.
Grandfather, I know that encountering such things is a huge insult to a man; it’s a deep humiliation, and perhaps a shadow that cannot be erased for a lifeti. But I believe that as long as you sincerely want to continue living with Grandma, no matter what mistakes she makes, you can forgive and accommodate.
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