Who would study psychology unless they had some issues?! Chapter 794 668: [Self] Partial Dialogue

Looking at Li Lingling's calm expression.

While the other was taking the ti to calm her feelings, Nan Zhubin's pupils slightly lost focus, and his thoughts began to run rapidly.

Bits and pieces from Li Lingling's past consultations intertwined with the details that erged in this hypnotherapy session, colliding, rubbing, and sorting in Nan Zhubin's mind.

From the first consultation to now, Li Lingling's problem threads finally erged completely.

The root of all surface issues of Li Lingling's Borderline Personality Disorder can find answers in this childhood flood trauma.

The core experience of her hypnotherapy this ti—being forcibly separated from her mother who cared about her after being abandoned by her father—is precisely the source of her Fear of Abandonnt.

In past consultations, Li Lingling was either extrely reliant on or completely rejected interpersonal relationships, approaching all romantic partners, including Liu Jiahang, without reservation until she discovered imperfections and fled instantly, essentially avoiding the pain of being "abandoned again."

In her subconscious, leaving by others equates to her own lack of worth, and this clear mory further reinforced this point—even her biological father chose to abandon her, the imprint of "being unnecessary" is deeper than the damage from any subsequent relationships.

At the sa ti, in hypnotherapy, the complex reality of the father being both the abandoner and the victim, and the mother being both the caregiver and the powerless, explained Li Lingling's black-or-white cognitive mode—in the past, she couldn't accept the gray area of interpersonal relationships, either completely accepting or completely denying, precisely because the childhood trauma made her unable to endure such complexity.

Thus, Li Lingling could only self-protect by simplifying cognition, defining her father as a "complete abandoner," and herself as a "worthless abandoned person," to avoid the pain brought by conflicting emotions.

Aside from Abandoned Control, Li Lingling's survivor guilt also found a complete logical chain after this hypnotherapy session.

In the past, she punished herself through intense work and refusal of happiness, even actively rushing to seize a knife in dical disturbances, without avoiding physical harm; at the ti, Nan Zhubin judged it was self-punishnt driven by survivor guilt.

Now it seems this guilt is far more complex than simply "others suffered, and I survived": Li Lingling subconsciously knew her survival ironically stemd from being abandoned by her father—if her father had chosen to take her, she might have t the sa fate as her father, brother, and mother.

This contradiction of "survival built on abandonnt" made her guilt heavier, and self-punishnt beca the only emotional outlet.

Li Lingling's emotional instability and dissociation tendency were also reflected in this hypnotherapy session—when revisiting the flood scene, Li Lingling showed a state of "blurred vision and stiff body," a short-term dissociation under trauma stress.

This also confird Nan Zhubin's previous judgnt: Li Lingling's past emotional outbursts and Emotional Isolation were instinctive ways to cope with the long-accumulated traumatic emotions.

Fortunately, this hypnotherapy session also revealed the opportunity for Li Lingling's healing.

The struggle of Li Lingling's mother during the separation and Li Lingling's courage to hold onto the chimney to survive were the keys to dismantling her negative cognition.

Especially after such a long ti of consultation and training in the disaster area, Li Lingling was no longer the first-ti visitor deeply trapped in self-denial. The experience of helping in the disaster area allowed her to initially find her self-worth, the smooth pediatric rotation provided her a new interpersonal environnt, and now combined with this clear mory—

The conditions for complete healing are fully matured.

...

Nan Zhubin's thoughts sorted in an instant, and his unfocused pupils refocused.

During the long ti before leaving the disaster area and returning to the company to begin consultations, he made many contingency plans. Although the current situation is not the "best" scenario, it is quite optimistic, enough for Nan Zhubin to select one from his contingency plans, adapt it slightly, and offer the most powerful intervention for Li Lingling.

"Lingling."

Seeing Li Lingling's expression and emotion calming down, Nan Zhubin finally spoke, "What you just saw in hypnotherapy, all those are real mories, right? Those are the true experiences of your childhood, aren't they?"

First, Li Lingling needs to admit this fact herself, reinforce once the strength.

Li Lingling nodded gently, this ti her pupils slightly lost focus.

Recalling in a waking state made her eyes rim red again: "It's real... far clearer than my previous blurred mories."

"I seem to have forgotten these before... No, I didn't want to rember, as if once my mind touched related stuff, it'd shrink back instantly. Over ti, I really 'forgot'..."

"But this ti is different." Li Lingling took a deep breath, "those things in my head, as clear as if they just happened."

Nan Zhubin nodded, first offering Empathy.

"I can understand this feeling, facing such mories requires imnse courage." Then Nan Zhubin turned to the core, "But it's also this clear mory that allows us to fully see the root of your troubles over the years."

"Do you rember?" Nan Zhubin spoke slowly, "At the first consultation, you said you didn't deserve help, thinking the pain at work was deserved, actively pursuing self-punishnt; you were either extrely dependent on or rejected interpersonal relationships, couldn't even figure out who you were. These issues are all closely related to your childhood experience."